Wednesday, August 26, 2020

Book Review: How to Be a Patient

How to Be a Patient: The Essential Guide to Navigating the World of Modern Medicine

by Sana Goldberg

Amazon link

Written by a medical professional, this book is a really practical guide to being a good patient and advocating for yourself. 

Some of my quick notes:

  • Making appointments
    • Make routine appointments in spring and summer
    • Make appointments earlier than 1pm because you're more likely to wait at the end of the day
    • Call between 10:30am - 11am. It's less busy and there are a lot of cancellations
    • Don't leave a message - keep calling until you get a person                
    • Wednesdays are a good day for appointments. Avoid Mondays and Fridays if possible.
  • Going to your appointment 
    • You're more likely to have your issues acknowledged if you dress up
    • Make a list of what you want to cover, including referrals, symptoms, etc. (I do this in Google Keep!) 
    • Make it personal - share stories, especially when they are relevant. She gives the example of the provider asking how you are, and instead of saying 'fine,' tell her just a tiny bit about your day. Helps you two relate.
    • Instead of just listing your symptoms in a scattered way, create a story / narrative about your symptoms to give them context. Try to limit to 2-4 symptoms. Otherwise, you just create noise which makes diagnosis harder. 
    • Include this info for each symptom:
      • When did it start
      • Frequency
      • What aggravates it
      • Duration 
      • What alleviates it
      • Any remedies you’ve tried that didn’t work
    • She also gives you a great template to describe your symptoms
    • There is also a section later in the book about describing your pain
  • Diagnosis
    • Different kinds of diagnosis errors - misdiagnosis, missed diagnosis, delayed diagnosis, overdiagnosis, underdiagnosis
    • A study showed that if providers get a list of possible diagnoses at the beginning, they are more likely to diagnose correctly. If they are over certain at the beginning you may get premature diagnosis / error 
    • Don't be afraid to ask doctor to explain how they reached a diagnosis
  • Should you go to the ER, urgent care, or wait? 
    • ER - sudden onset, poses a threat to basic functions, may lead to losing a limb, or is a physiological function that changes rapidly. ABC = Airway, Breathing, Circulation
    • If you're not sure if you should go to urgent care or wait, call your PCP and ask
  • How to use the healthcare bluebook to determine price of procedures
    • Ask your provider for the specific name and CPT (current procedural terminology) code for procedure and where you are going
    • “I’m scheduled to have a/an           . The code is           . My insurance plan is           . I am calling to inquire what the cost will be.”
    • http://www.healthcarebluebook.com
  • Vitamins / supplements
    • Look for USP stamp. Compliance is optional
    • Ask for prescription for dietary supplements if your provider recommends them (for coverage)
  • Difference between a living will and healthcare power of attorney
    • Living will = "what interventions you would want if you were unable to make your own medical decisions"
    • Healthcare Power of Attorney  = who you appoint to "make complex medical decisions for you in an unanticipated emergency"



A Year of Cancer Treatment in Video

When I started treatment, I tried to take daily photos. It's a year after the first photo. Here's the video! I got a bit lazy about taking photos near the end so my hair seems to miraculously grow overnight. But that's what it felt like, too. 😁